In an emotional video statement, the actress opened up about ending a previous relationship before her ‘RollerCoaster‘ audition, navigating boundary issues involving her mother, and taking accountability for how the situation unfolded.
In a candid and emotional video address, actress Shelly Benda has broken her silence surrounding the end of the widely followed “ShellyPundao” pairing, offering a deeply personal look into complex family dynamics, an uncoupling that went unacknowledged by an ex-partner, and an explicit public apology to Pundao.
The Prelude: Seeking Autonomy Before RollerCoaster
Detailing the timeline of events, Benda revealed that her former partner was originally introduced to her by her mother.
However, ahead of stepping into her audition for RollerCoaster in 2024, Benda made the decision to end the relationship in a bid to reclaim her personal autonomy, make her own choices, and forge her own path forward.
According to the actress, although she clearly communicated her desire to walk away, her ex-boyfriend refused to view the conversation as a definitive breakup.
Instead, he remained firmly rooted within her family’s inner circle—maintaining a particularly close bond with her mother.
Happiness Amid Navigating Family Boundaries
Despite the awkward dynamics, Benda shared that during this period she realized she was genuinely happy alongside Pundao.
However, that happiness was weighed down by severe emotional strain, as her ex-partner’s lingering presence and close ties with her mother made it nearly impossible for Benda to speak openly about her relationship with Pundao within her own family.
Accountability and a Public Apology
Reflecting on the fallout, Benda acknowledged her own shortcomings in managing the delicate situation, admitting that she could have handled the circumstances with greater care.
Closing her statement, the actress expressed regret over how events transpired and issued a heartfelt public apology, directing her deepest sympathies specifically toward Pundao.
